Meet Cori

3/24/2017 — cori
This blog is about my kids, for my kids and about the dream job I always wanted - being a Mommy. It’s also for family and friends that don’t live nearby and want to stay connected to our everyday happenings.

Most importantly, I started this blog for my children for when they are older. I wanted a written record of how happy, silly, creative, and fun they were as children.  I wanted them to see the capacity to love they exhibited when they were young and in my constant care.

All the stories fade with time in my memory. But if I record them, they stay in the present. Those same emotions, scenes and memories come flooding back bringing the moment alive again. I want to preserve those moments. This is our family at its most vulnerable. This is the real us. We have no pretense.

As Trace Adkins says, "You're gonna miss this, you're gonna want this back, you're gonna wish these days hadn't gone by so fast, these are good times, so take a good look around, you may not know it now.... but you're gonna miss this!"

I know this is such a small sliver of time in the expanse of my life. That’s why I want to remember to enjoy to it’s fullest, even when exhaustion overwhelms me, or I feel more like a cabbie than a mommy, or when child training becomes monotonous and hard. Life is more than right now. It was my husband and I at the beginning and will be us at the end.  I want to remember to keep that relationship priority so the children can see what love looks like.

In this journey of life, it’s more than teaching them to clean up their toys and potty training and what extra-circular activities we should choose - it’s teaching them to be independent adults, who know how to love others deeply, how to make wise decisions and know how to give of themselves and sacrifice. I respect my children. I like who they are. I miss them when they are asleep or away.

Now…about me…I am a child of God.  I desire to act mercifully with those around me, to be known as one who stands up for justice for the marginalized, and live out of a constant state of humility.  I mess up everyday and am in desperate need of God's grace. My goal is to do small things with great love everyday (nod to Mother Teresa).

I absolutely adore being a wife and a mommy. It's my favorite (nod to "Elf")! I am forever learning. I thoroughly enjoy researching - everything and anything.  I can't read enough.  I devour books like cookies (except I probably eat more cookies that I do books).  Reading to my children is one of my most treasured, precious times we share together.

I am captivated and inspired by people's stories.  I actually find cleaning fun, relaxing and very satisfying. I love to be outside and soak in as much sun, fresh air and natural beauty as much as possible. Sunrises and sunsets make me so happy I could cry each time I see one.

I love furniture and fabric and making things look pretty.  I have an innate sense of symmetrical balance.  This is a gift and a curse (nod to "Monk").  I can see if something is 'off' by a quarter of an inch and feel the need to fix it (even if it's not mine).

In my 40s I went back to school to become an Adult ESL instructor.  I admire, adore and appreciate each and every immigrant and refugee I've had the privilege of teaching. They have opened my eyes and heart up to new ways of thinking. I am a better person for knowing my students.

I have many passions I could write about…and maybe one day I’ll have the time. But right now my passion is my family…the fun I have with them, the things I learn with them and from them, and the joy I have living life with them.

Carpe Diem!

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