Aug 11, 2019

Southwest Vacation

8/11/2019 — cori
This year we travelled to a part of the country we had never before been but had heard a lot about. Lake Powell is a popular destination for many people around here. It was a huge canyon on the border between southern Utah and northern Arizona that was created by the building of the Glen Canyon Dam. It is beautiful, but filled with controversy. This was the first stop in our southwest vacation.


Here we are at 5:30 in the morning, thrilled to be setting out on our next adventure (Gavin, not so much).


A short while later, they looked like this.


After an eleven hour drive, we finally arrived! It doesn't take long to realize that we are in the high desert. It is nothing but red and brown dirt/sand and low scrub brushes everywhere you look.


 There are also gorgeous plateaus and mesas surrounding you everywhere you look. I never ceased to be amazed by the people who live and thrive in this harsh landscape. This is a view of the town of Page, AZ where we stayed during our visit.


It was formed by the building of the Glen Canyon Dam in the 1950s and 1960s. Technically, the government confiscated Native American land to build the city to house the dam workers. This area is part of the huge Navajo Nation - the U.S's largest Reservation. 


We woke up the next day ready and excited to go kayaking on Lake Powell. We were supposed to meet our friends here and rent a boat together, but they were unable to come (sad panda) and so we had to go with the more cost efficient kayaks. The lake is 1932 square miles. We only saw 9 of them. However, our immediate concern was getting these kayaks onto the roof of our car.


Our secondary concern became making sure they stayed on during the 15 minute drive to the lake. These kayaks are "secured" on the car with a contraption that included 4 styrofoam pool floaties and some pvc pipe. Needless to say, it was a long, slow drive.


This is what we came to see and explore!


Once we got there and unloaded, then we had to figure out who rides with who, where our backpacks went, how to install the seats. Which way to turn once we get on the lake, right or left? Endless decisions.


Posing for the customary "here we are a Lake Powell" picture.


Once we got on the lake, it was spectacular. The color of the water was so beautiful. The sun was bright and hot. The heat was a perfect 100 degrees for playing in the water all day.


I kept reminding myself that what we're seeing is the top of canyon cliffs. The lake plunges the depths of 558 feet.


It's also known for having all these "finger lakes", little tributaries that extend off of the main lake. Our goal was to find some of these narrow finger lakes, explore them, and then get out of our kayaks and explore the surrounding area. That goal was never fully experienced.


Gavin was lucky enough to have his own kayak which meant that he had only his own weight to row. The rest of us had 2 people to row. One would think this might be more helpful, when in fact, one would be wrong because some of the people,(not to be named - but can be guessed) really had no clue how to row. Sadly, this was unknown to the kayak mates prior to this grand adventure. Some of the kayak mates may have gotten a wee bit snippy at other kayak mates who were operating at a "less than optimal" level. However, these same kayak traveling buddies eventually made up and were nice to each other again by the last hour of the adventure - kind of.


This is an example of a narrow opening off the main lake. When we went to explore this area, it turned out to be a dead end - like a small cul-de-sac if you will. We were starting to get a tad bit worried that we might never find these so-called "finger lakes." We rowed and rowed and rowed. Turns out we rowed for 7 hours straight. Lakes DO NOT have currents. Whenever we stopped rowing, we just sat there. We looked longingly at all the boats zooming by us. We desperately wanted one of them to have mercy on us and throw us a rope so we could be pulled behind. Our arms were slowly detaching from their shoulder sockets. And still, no finger lakes in sight.



However, at long last, we found a small alcove off the side of the lake and rowed over to it like we had been drifting in the middle of the pacific for the past 30 days. In this alcove were a ton of rocks and shallow swimming areas. It was a dream. We camped out here for a good hour nursing our sore backs, arms, and hands.


We swam like fish. The water was so clear. You could see everything with goggles on.


This is the best description of what the rest of the evening looked like. We could hardly move. We just laid in bed, groaned, and fell asleep watching the "Mr. Rogers" documentary (which was incredible, btw).


The following day we went to see the famed Horseshoe Bend. The Colorado River takes a little detour around this massive boulder before heading back on its course again.


That afternoon, we headed out to the Reservation to take a tour of the Antelope Slot Canyons. They are on the Navajo Reservation. You can only see them with a Navajo guide. It is worth every penny! This was our descent into the canyon.


It is stifling hot down there but the views are 100% worth it.




This particular formation is called "The Lion". Can you see the lion head silhouette?


This is our guide, Ron. He was so nice! He explained about the history of the canyons and how they had been formed over millions of years from fast running storm water eroding the soft sandstone of the mesas. He said he and his friends used to explore and play down in the canyons as kids.


This one is called "Half Pike."


We couldn't take enough pictures. I think Chuck and I each took at least 50 pictures while we were down there. And the pictures don't really even do it justice. It's too beautiful to describe.


Another family shot in one of the larger openings. Most of the time you are walking sideways in order to move through the canyons so you can fit through one at a time.


This one is called "Lady In The Wind."


We are one big sheen of sweat. But we are together and we are happy.


This was right before exiting the canyon.


And here we are coming out of the slot canyon. Incredible, isn't it?! You never would have guessed something so beautiful was hidden in this apparent wasteland.



This was after our tour. They treated us to much desired ice cold water! This was our tour group. The other family was from Chile. We were amazed at how many foreigners were visiting. Everyone in our hotel spoke a different language it seemed. It was incredible.


The evening was no less incredible! After watching "Dr. Strange",  Gavin suggested we head out to a dark spot outside of town to star gaze. We were hoping to catch of glimpse of The Milky Way. And we did!! It was magical. We sat there in silence and awe. We were unable to take a photo with our cameras, that is why I'm using the amazing photo captured in the AZ desert by John Wise (http://www.johnwise.com/category/photo-of-the-day/page/4/). It was a day of unbelievable beauty.


The following day we drove 2.5 hours south to the North Rim of the Grand Canyon. We were shocked by how forested it was and by the buffalos at the entrance of the park.


This was a breath-takingly beautiful sight to behold.


We had no idea that the North Rim was so different from the South Rim. We didn't really know what to expect, but certainly not this. We thought it would be more deserty, I guess. The magnitude of the scale is hard to see in a mere picture. It doesn't do it justice. 


The Fam amidst a backdrop of awe and wonder.


This just doesn't get old.


We came back to the hotel and spent it doing the only thing you can do when it's 104 degrees outside.


The next day we drove 4.5 hours to Durango, CO. We were desperately trying to get there before 1pm because we had tickets to ride the famed Durango and Silverton Steam Engine at 1:40pm. However, Googlemaps and road construction were working overtime to thwart our arrival time. We got to the train station at 1:10 only to be told that where we were to board was actually another 17 miles outside of town. They kindly exchanged our tickets for the next morning's ride. We went to the hotel exhausted. It actually turned out to be a good thing because it stormed like the dickens the rest of the afternoon. The kids had fun swimming in the hotel pool while I read. It was a slow, low-key day for a change. That evening, after the rain cleared, we walked through old downtown Durango.


The next morning it was all aboard for a two hour train ride deep into the San Jaun Mountains.


We were 400 feet above the Animas River.


Our state car was identical to when it was built over 130 years ago.


There were no streets, no trails, just the train tracks and the river. It was also a perfect morning weather-wise for a ride, a comfortable 72 degrees with zero rain. 


From there we drove to Mesa Verde State Park.


It had some pretty spectacular views, but our favorite were the views of the ancient cave dwellings, pit houses, and pueblos.


These were literally unbelievable. This is called the Cliff Tower House


They are built into the sides of cliffs that are a thousand feet or so above a very rocky valley. How did these people survive here? How did they grow crops or raise livestock? These native people lived here between 2000 and 700 years ago.


This is the type of terrain they had to climb to get up to the cliffs.


This is the largest of the cliff dwellings that are all over the park. This is called the Cliff Palace. You can sign up for a guided tour in which you can climb and walk through these magnificent structures. We didn't have that chance because of time. But it sure would have been fun!


We headed for home the next day, driving a southern route through the mountains that we hadn't taken before. It was nice to see more of the state we now call home.

We also like to refer to this vacation as The Only One Meal Per Day Vacation. We always ate breakfast at the hotel, but then lunch was always iffy, so we just ate snacks and usually ate a real meal sometime between the hours of 3 and 8pm. You just never knew when. This flippant eating style never would have worked when our kids were younger. But now they go with the flow so well, we can fly by the seat of our pants even when it comes to food. Half the time we just weren't hungry, or we were in the middle of the desert and there was literally nothing, or we were kayaking, or our options were not palatable for anyone. What does that say about us that we would rather not eat than eat mediocre food? 

Another vacation in the books. Lessons learned (NEVER kayak Lake Powell - only rent a boat), experiences lived (the Milky Way at dark), sites seen (Grand Canyon - check), movies watched (Mr. Rogers and Dr. Strange), and life lived together. That's my kind of fun!

Jul 26, 2019

In Chloe's Words

7/26/2019 — cori

When our friends were in town we spent one evening doing our own version of a TED Talk. We all decided on the topic: Gun violence in schools. We were each given 20 minutes to do research and then present our talk to the rest of the group.

It was fascinating! I thoroughly enjoyed each and every insight presented. I learned something new with each talk as well. What I appreciated the most is how well the "talks" represented each person's personality so perfectly. We have some amazing orators.

But the ONE talk that stood out from the rest was from the person most nervous to give her speech: Chloe. As soon as she finished, the room was perfectly quiet and we all sat there in awe until Priya broke the revere and said, "Chloe, you MUST send that to a local paper. That is THE BEST explanation about gun violence in schools I have ever heard!" This, coming from a teacher.

Here is the essay that astounded us all:

Ever since I have attended school, lockdown drills have been a quarterly occurrence in classes. Growing up, I’d hear little things about students “threatening” to shoot up the school. I’d heard about different shootings going on in high schools.

I never gave it much thought, I was in elementary school, or I was in middle school. Nobody shot up middle schools. It was one of those things that have been normal and I don’t give much thought, even though I should have.

When we moved to Colorado, I was a little uneasy because the first shooting anybody had heard of was Columbine, in Colorado.

But I still never gave it too much thought, except another drill we’d have to practice in school. At the end of eighth grade, the Parkland shooting headlined in the news for a long time, enough to make me scared about the possibility of it happening to me, especially since I would be going to high school that next year.

All of my freshman year, we’d have kids in my own school threatening to shoot up the school, shoot our school officer or our principal. These “threats” would be written in the bathroom stalls, lists of people they’d shoot. I was pulled out of school one day because there were rumors of which day the school shooting would happen.

In May, right before the end of the year, Highlands Ranch, a school just south of Denver got shot up. Just before he graduated, a senior was killed trying to save his peers. This shouldn’t be a thing kids go through their entire school career and think of as normal, or inevitable.

We need to prevent things like this from happening before it becomes too normal to pay attention to. There are several ways to prevent school shootings. One of the main reasons a student shoots their school up is because of their mental state.

Feeling neglect from parents, depression, anxiety from grades, or anger. Teachers can start recognizing these traits, make a personal connection with that student, recommend help, and follow through with it.

People often argue ‘guns don’t kill people — people kill people’. This is true, but what is the main way people kill people? Through guns. Controlling guns, maintaining areas where they're allowed to be used, at a shooting range, for hunting, and that’s all.

It’s simple in theory, but there are too many people who will think it’s either all guns or no guns at all. It’s like during class, one student sticks gum under his desk, so no one gets to chew gum.

It doesn’t have to be like that, people just need to realize it’s not right to stick gum under your desk.

Well said, Chloe! I hope people care and listen to the words of a 15 year old.

Jul 17, 2019

Summer Job

7/17/2019 — cori


This summer Bennett found the exact perfect job for himself.


He is a coach for kids' summer sport camps!

It has been so fun listening to his stories everyday when he comes home. He always connects with a few kids at each camp. He definitely has a way with kids, they all love him. He's great at coming up with games/activities on the spot. He genuinely enjoys playing and being with the kids. He loves it when they look up to him and if one were to start talking about basketball...well, he's in heaven!  It's such a joy watching your kids find their niche. 

Some stories he's related are:

At a golf camp, one 5 year old little girl, Asher, spent most of the days pouring gobs of sunscreen all over herself. On the last day she said she was hot and asked if Bennett would go sit under the shade with her. Then she takes out her unicorn book and asks Bennett if he knows how to read. He answers in the affirmative. She then sits on his lap, leans her head on his shoulder and asks him to read her book. He gladly obliges. She constantly wanted to hold his hand and walk around with him the whole camp.

At a basketball camp, he had two proteges, Duke and Carter. According to Bennett, they both had skills and a love for the game as big as his. He would make sure they were always in his group. He would even cut their break time short so he and the boys could sneak back in the gym without the other kids knowing and do some one-on-one basketball. They spoke his language and brought joy to his heart. 

At a football camp, he met a little kid named Yusef who had zero desire or ability to play a sport but was hilarious and kept Bennett in stitches the whole time. The kid just couldn't catch a ball, but boy was he quick-witted, a skill Bennett values.

At a flag-football camp a kid found out he was a Cowboys fan and brought him a Romo football card the next day.

Jul 9, 2019

Fun With Friends

7/09/2019 — cori

These guys have been friends since elementary school. 


Gavin and Pranav were in 5th grade


Vik and Bennett were in 2nd.


It's been a joy to watch their friendships continue to grow and blossom even though we've moved twice. We've done vacations together, college visits, numerous trips back and forth to each other's houses. They are the kind of friends that even though you might not see each other or talk very often, you pick right up where you left off without missing a beat. It's the best gift. So you can imagine how excited we were to find out that they would be coming to hang out with us for a week in Colorado.


We did all the things! We started our exciting week off with visiting a local dairy farm. Not that we take all our visitors to dairy farms, but they just happened to be interested and it was low key.


The adults spent a day visiting Rocky Mountain National Park. (Pranav and Gavin hadn't yet arrived in town and Vik and Bennett would rather go fishing. There was no way Chloe wanted to spend the day with all the adults, so she hung out with her friend instead.)


We were treated to all kinds of wildlife. If you look really close, you can see a large herd of Elk grazing on the alpine hillside. We were at almost 12,000 feet here.



These adorable little creatures come out of hibernation for only 6 weeks a year and we were treated to seeing a whole colony of them. They were active, noisy, scampering, and fighting. 


You never know what you're going to come across.


This bird was one of my favorites. It was as if he were posing. He kept standing on the branch patiently waiting for all of us passersby to snap his lovely profile.



Every night it seemed we were playing spikeball. And boy, did these guys get into it! It was some great competition.


We spent a huge swath of time sitting around visiting about all the subjects there are to talk about. And it was wonderful.


Lucky for us, our favorite hammocking spot is still a secret and we took them there. I'm shocked more people haven't found this little gem. We call it Hammock Valley. I think 5 of the 8 of us fell asleep. It was that peaceful.


We went to an escape room, but didn't escape. It was an incredible challenge though.


On this fine day we went white water rafting. This is the pre-rafting picture. 


This is the, "Oh my goodness, I hope none of us fall out of the raft!" picture.


This is the, "WE'RE HAVING THE TIME OF OUR LIVES ADRENALINE RUSH!!" picture. 


Of course we ate til our hearts and tummies were content. Priya makes THE BEST Indian food. I got to literally sit at her feet for one whole day learning All The Things. She lives to cook for people. It's her love language. What she is currently cooking in this picture is one of my all time favorite foods: Rice Balls or White Balls of Goodness, as I like to call them. Good food makes for a good vacation!

Jun 24, 2019

Minnesota Time

6/24/2019 — cori

This past week, Bennett, Chloe, and I got to visit Minnesota together.


We spent a great deal of time playing. This was the first winning tennis team.


This was the first losing tennis team.


This was the second winning tennis team.


This was the second losing tennis team. The common denominator is I was the loser both times.



However, I prevailed in squash against Bennett.


We tried our luck on indoor courts to no avail. We can't seem to beat a 69 and 71 year old no matter how hard we try. Granted, Bennett was playing with tendonitis in his knee and I was still recuperating from the accident. But we sure gave them a run for their money.


While we were busy playing, Chloe was doing a different sort of playing. She was visiting her favorite little neighbors and playing all the fun imagination games they used to play. She talks about these sweet girls all the time and sure does miss them. I'm so glad they were home and had the time to get together on such short notice.


And life just doesn't get better than getting the chance to visit with your best friend from Minnesota. Chloe and Aspen had a few hours to catch up, which is nowhere near enough for two 15 year olds, but any time together was a gift in itself. They took what they could get and made the most of it.


But this was the real reason for our visit. 


We came to surprise my parents for their 50th wedding anniversary. Sveta carved this amazing watermelon.


As well as made this incredibly delicious cake. All I made was a little video - no food.


We had fun taking lots of pictures on the beautiful grounds of the Falconer Vineyards in Red Wing, Minnesota. 


The grandparents with all the grandkids except for Gavin.


Ryan and Sveta and the girls.


Me and the kids.


A nice stroll through the vineyard. It was a wonderful, memorable time.

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